1) Do we have the same views about children?
-eg. discipline, affection, do they even want to have children, etc.
2) Can we talk about money?
-eg. how much to spend, how much to save, how much we each have, etc.
3) Do we have the same feelings towards family?
-eg. do we want extended family to be integrated into our married life, in-laws, etc.
4) What will we spend our time doing?
-eg. family activities, household chores, church, dates, etc.
5) Does he have any addictions or problems with abuse I should know about?
-eg. drugs, pornography, familial problems, ex-girlfriends, etc.
6) The very most important question- can I see myself with him for eternity?
These are just some of the questions you should be asking yourself, and there are so many great sites and resources you can go to. Here are just a few examples:
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